Monday, 30 September 2013

Buddies 5: East African't...BLOG 27

           With all humility and am not being funny, i ain't necessarily a closest sort of guy to this buddy. There is a greatness about his person, which has to do with a kind heart , frankly I know one when I see such person. But his world is a bit in shambles because he is not ready to leave his old habits. Once in a while when we are together, you may be prompted to ask what binds us together? He's a real funny dude .He simply amazes me with ludicrous mentality.
           Today, he is complaining about his teenage  son, who apparently is a full time college student. Like most parents, he desires the best for his son, but he cannot understand why the 17 yrs old do not comply to common sense. Fact is Mr East Africana is not living an examplenary lifestyle to his son. How on earth can a father who drives home late every blessed day ( I remember my mama those days using often the phrase ''every blessed day'') at 1-2 am, drunk and staggering, desiring that his son should get home at least 7 p.m each day even while dad is stuffed up in a Pop in north lond., clearly he  the Dad does the opposite?
           As a mentor back in the day, it was easy for me to see that the Teen was a good lad in character. The lad frankly wanted a bit of inspiring leadership from his father. Mr African't
 enjoys to re-affirm to his son that he 'll do a punch with him some day if he doesn't change his attitude. That's strange, isn't?
            Firstly, the lad is gradually just finding out his identity in a mixed messaging conduct and culture of how to be an African as well as being British. Even these concepts are difficult to sort out by mature men and women who migrated here more than a triple decades ago. Not to speak of having a British African't dad which is as unstable as the British weather conditions, but desires a full-on impeccable decency from a 17 yr old son facing peer pressure and cross cultural conflict. Cross cultural CAT-a-strophy, cross cultural casualties. I beg to say , I don't get it !

Saturday, 14 September 2013

Buddies 4:Eastend Africana.BLOG 26

   East African't and I met at the big day of his son. East African't  as i 've  decided to call him, because his morals and values are not necessarily African. He is living in his own self styled, constructed bubble, which apparently is ludicrous.
   Due to the fact that he has drank himself to stupor and unknowingly started chatting up a strange lady. His wife decided to drive home with the kids as he has refused to come to his senses and go home.
   As at the time his Mrs called to report him, i was  home as i don't do much of late night. Bemused and gutted, his wife wondered who 'll pick him. He was virtually deserted to be on his own. How was he going home, no one bothered to care.
   Well the East African't finally hired a black cab to do the journey for him. Suddenly, his wife heard him re-emphasising to the cabbie that he has paid the cabbie man, to which the cabbie claims as untrue. The docile looking Mrs is out now in the nearby residential car park allotted to them. As soon as she noticed her hubby, she shook her head in disappointment; back slammed the door and  tucked herself in-bed with duvet cover. Jeez, he is at the door, his door keys absent in his pocket. Finally, the door was opened by his wife and she throws the bank card at him.
    Consequently, she hissed at him! continuing her pretty sleep with a jet speedo sound.

Tuesday, 27 August 2013

The World Isn't Complex,People Are.BLOG 25

        Certain individuals tend to relate and deal with you based on their idealogical perceptions, understanding and spontaneous conclusions on you.More often than not they get it wrong, totally.Such peeps tend to do things and act according to how they navigate you with the crucible of their minds.Note here that their own mindset is already a crucible, now they raise the temperature of the crucible mind and together come up with a sum total of who they want and think that you are as a person.It is worse when they know that you as an assessed person is a man of faith, an ever forgiving personality.Equiped with this factual reality, they simply resolve and long to continually do wrong propositions to you the vulnerable here.If it hurts they don't care an inch.
        I do conspicuously remember this lovely Uncle of mine,who has since passed onto greater glory; who was fond of saying that if anybody does evil act aginst him with a view to apologising, that he(my Uncle) will also quickly do evil attitude against the offender and smartly apologise too.Laughing! Perhaps it worked for him back in the day.Honestly I am pretty sure that I don't believe in that school of thought, well maybe that is why this present generation has gone talibanic in attitude and manners.
        I as an individual has come to a posit in life whereby I don't give a monkeys about anyone who lack grace in their being.They are free to resolve whatever they deem fit to resolve about my personality.What in the world do I care about such peeps, who get their 'effect' without a resultant, knowing fully well that the normal stream of lifes event is suppose to be resultant effect or better still causative effect, but they choose to do it their own way e.g Frank Sinatra's I' d it my way.Well, in all humility I am a class act in the real world, online and landline if you don't mind all the lines whatever, laughs!
        Each person in this globe has gotto be themselves.You 've gotto be you. I am me.We as individual humans has to be ourselves like the gorgeous craft from the Almighty creator of all creations.Why should I be someone else, least you.And why would anyone in their insanity desire me to be them? The God of all creations is the God of order and not and 'll never be the author of confusion.Anyone maybe uptight with their trivialities uphead, but that is their world and not mine. Friends, we got to be simple , the path of simplicity is honourable, just, realistic, sweet, joyous, peaceful and has a predestined delivery.
         I 've learnt both in the hard way et al to make myself proactive in my thoughts.I won't do any thinking for another adult and clearly I expect same.The world is full of distractions and self contracted distractors, but I cannot give into that.It's absolutely imperactive to know that the devil 'll rather prefer to use people who are most closer to you, whether in the past or present.That's the reason you should useyourheadot.com at all times.People have to learn how not to trade with other peoples life stories.You are only privy to know bits of it, just ponder how you 'll be act if you were to know all the vibes about someone,nuts?
        Can we just say that if you abuse the priviledge of the know by trading, well that's definitely your calamity James.(Ha,ha, any English premiership fan in the house?).You 'll get yours without surviving, its called the law of nature.Fact speaking, I recall a couple of years ago, when Telesales was envouge and I wanted to install some Sat Tv device in my house, there was this squeaky vocal and over-ambitious young man who for no justifiable reasons said to me that I cannot turn down the deal offer, why? I anxiously asked, he said because even though I 've not paper signatured it, but I 've verbally made a commitment and deal with him.
       Trust me, I literally jumped, summersaulted on my end of the phone and told him with the most thunderous voice, that where in the world is such a law existing? As a elite I dismantled him like an aircrash with words, I even went into legal citations and he quickly beckoned; and invited to the phone his Area manager.Who consequently started an immediate apology, blaming youthful exuberance as the demon.This is the attribute of certain individual lone species who trade priviledge positions of trust.
        Do not trade the life events or eventualities of peoples stories, the reason been that, it is the real life's intellectual property of the owners.It should not be shared, traded or voiced by any means possible, because if you do, you are obviously privatising the personal business of others.Moreso , you are grossly violating their lifes spaces.It is not funny and shouldn't be.Everyone on the earth's surface has a life story and history.People are wise enough to pretend and act as if they don't know yours but the truth is, it's just all about self respect and not wanting to juxtapose your personal spaces.We live in a free world of Wifi and Tweeters, word of mouth, cell phone.Violating priviledge story lines is not a form of democracy or ingredients of a free glo-society.
       You as a spreader and shredder have got worse lines too about your own decaying life, condescending is another matter altogether.To be forewarned is to be forearmed.Always be reminded that if anyone is so keen about other peoples vibes, it is all about hearing from the horses mouth or delete it from your gabbage loaded head.Too much information can cause explosives in the head, especially the unnecessary  info's.Deleting is an option of responsibility.Be responsible not to cause an imaginary California wild fire.There are quite a number of young men and women across the racial classifications who are currently undergoing mid-life crisis because they 've got dementia due to 24/7 hours of deliberating on other peoples life stories.To be demented is medically not a genetic inheritance for Afro-Carribs except the very aged ones. Though am not a medical doctor.
       I stand to be corrected for the above,  but I 've been blessed to do  allied courses as a multi pro., and in this case as a scientist .The quest as I would normally ask is this: Are we really surprised ? if a young person has gone lunae due to other peeps private vibrations? isn't that demented levels? Demented about other peeps untrue stories and celebrating their temporary challenges which obviously is part of the new age of adulthood.Its a  life's process, a stage.I 've seen individuals blamed about everything, if he is confrontational(they blame him for doing so), if he is not (he/she is blamed too for that), if someone  facing a challenge is a dialoguing person( he is said to be too Shakespearean as a fault).So  when is the balance ever right? The gospel of Jesus Christ is a profound gospel for all round aspects of human needs, that's what we need to be spreading and not the personal gospel of mere mortals as us.
      Have a great day.
                                                                Kings as always.

Tuesday, 30 July 2013

Ashamed Of The Gospel ?? BLOG 24

                       This is precisely an absolutely close piece from my heart.It's also imperative that you should know that I am a conviction Christian or Christ follower.I sincerely don't know about being a fanatical Christian, but what I think I know is that I make conscious effort to proclaim the truth about the God that I believe in and all His mighty work.So as a reader and known/unknown friend(I may never ever meet you in person).I 'll like you to enjoy this article today.It is an almost un-usual blogging.Enjoy the ride reading!
                        Firstly, I 'll like us to start with the scripture in Rom 1:16 ''I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ, for it is the power of God to salvation for everyone who believes''. Why did I quote that scripture? I quoted it to let y'all know that I am am personally not ashamed of the gospel truth of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ.So no matter how jovial, peeps' person and socio-politico I am in many of my bloggings, I like to let peeps know that I love the gospel truth of Jesus Christ.The salvation part of the gospel of Jesus Christ is quoted in the book of Psalms as such joyous power that ENABLES us to fetch water out of the wells of salvation(put aptly as liberty).
                        Now, here is the deal of this  blogging right now. I am going to be as simplistic and straight forward as the experience itself happened.I call it experience but if I don't want to be comically cheeky with y'all I 'll say it as it is: The Miraculous back to Life of Monic. Guys can I just say that I am taking the risk of blogging about this today without the prior knowledge of my Pastor. He does sometimes stumbles into reading my blog from Twitter as he is very much aware of the blog 'AmNotKiddingAmi?' But he may likely not want me to blog about this subject.Not quite sure how he considers it, subjective or objective.Apparently objective in nature in my view,as he also.I know that in as much as he doesn't like publicity, he also would prefer me not to give the names and places of our church.
                        The fundamental reason for the above is that our local Pastor doesn't believe in any form or practise of prosperity messaging.He is also very careful about miscontruling people into taking the glory of God.All the local Pastor believes as I humbly do also is that the name of God only should be praised and only God should all glory belong.But I am effectively risking sharing this experience with you guys  because I want people to give their life to Jesus Christ, which I know as the gospel truth of God's life. I can understand that my local Pastor can stumble into this blog anytime, in as much as I do respect him, I 'll like to be a bit cheeky to share this with you all.Hopefully you 'll be blessed by the experience.
                        On sat. the 15th of Jun.2013,my local Pst who is a personal friend of mine was met to pick me up , but he couldn't and so re-arranged for someone to deputise for him.What happened? He was pruning the branches in  a big tree that is in his cul-de-sac house, and as expected he was using a relatively new Ladder to do the climbing.The ladder itself crumbled on itself and broke into irreconcilable pieces.The question is, where is the climber? The docile Pastor fell so hard beyond believe on his forehead, left arm and rolled vigorously on the nearby concrete hard slabs in the garden.His wife wasn't at home and all his four elite brilliantly grown up children has over the recent years lived on their own.He had multiple , triple surgical stitches in a quarter of his facials , back, arm.God Almighty was definitely his rescue.Two Sundays running until just last Sunday, he wasn't able to do the pulpit calling job, that he loved so much with a passion.That gives you an insight about the gravity of the fall.
                        Right this is the main deal .Next day the 16th of June(sunday).I was sitting in the front middle roll as we normally do.I 've been a front roller since my first day of school in life, because I like to grab everything.Well same attitude I carry onto the church services.'Haha afterall I am not going to be asked to pay for the vintage posit, big boys don't and can't pay God, no way,ain't a cinema'.....kidding with a laugh.Anyways, service started , sharp 10 am; trust English people and time! Praise and worship song, exciting day, black people bouncing with their flamboyant Afro/ Carribean traditional clothings.White people donning with T- shirts  and trousers.Other white guys even wearing combact short-knickers combined with mere flip-flops, as they can't be bothered to dress too much.Hmm! Sunshine is blasting inferno radiations, very un-usual for everyday England,'init'?
                        Now praise and worship song is over, next peeps are asked to do a hand shake, warm welcoming to both new and old folks, children asked to move down to the Creche and sunday school.Then the Pastor's wife( I won't mention her name, if you got that appetite sorry, I told y'all they abhor publicity of any sort; truly humble, simple, pragmatic everyday Christian folks).She told the congregation including me, that one of her daughter's friend just died, for no apparent diagnostic cause of death.She therefore re-emphasised that the congregational members of the church should endeavour to trust in God and ensure that they serve God in truth and in spirit, just as the church just did in worship.The reason according to her is because no one knows when the Lord is coming, may call anyone home, neither do anyone knows the Lord's second coming to earth.Well, everyone listened ardently.I in particular listen so attentively, because  I like her ascent and she is my friend.Her simplistic delivery of the Word is fab, more so she works as an academia as my humble self, we connect mentally in lots of ways.
                      Then comes the stage, where the deputy for the resident Pastor was to deliver the most basic sermon for the day.The sermon was a bomb and as simple as submitting the entirety of ones life to Jesus Christ, the son of God Almighty.Simple ,basic sermon for an everyday Christian, adult, kids,new comers,repentant back sliders and those seeking a new heart from sin.Lovely, enjoyable sermon.Now, from nowhere, there  was a massive bang blasting on the roof top, perhaps even, where the cross of Christ is structured beautifully on the state of the art, solidly constructed glass and brick architectural edifice.The cables on the hexagonal roof design bounced three times repeatedly.The deputising preacher in his usual calmness asked for 'peace be still'.Appealed for church members to be calm and stay on their sit as possible as they could.Seconds later, service continued as normal.Some mini-chested dudes,''don't laugh but am laughing right now'';went outside to check if it is some kinda sub-urban terrorism.Ha ha!
                     Half an hour later, I had a familiar couples voice calling out in for help: Mum,mum,oh no.Jesus help us Lord! From where I sat, I decided to do a quick 90 degrees neck turning and all I saw immediately was my close friends( a lawyer and his wife, a nurse/midwife by pro).I was moved instantaneously by the Holy Spirit as I saw the about 80 yrs old woman falling sideways to her left arm on her sit.She never fell to her face(which could 've in my opine possibly indicated a conscious,possible life).But she fell sideways and she was instantly gone.All her vital signs of life vanished,no pulse,breathe,movements of any sort visible.Her own daughter like I mentioned earlier is an NHS certified practising staff.She 'd tried to revive her mum but to no avail, then she started wailing,six other NHS nurses,medical reps including a medical doctor I suppose was in the service, all 'd tried to do CPS but to no avail.Gone she was! Just like that? dead??
                    A mere handful of us, with all humility according to God's word in 1 Peter 5 vs 6, i can vouch for myself, was really touched,moved totally to God's submission of the situation at hand; and therefore decided within ourselves individually without speaking to one another, that we 've to blank off and pray to God.I remember remaining standing where I was and declaring God's own words of life e.g the 3rd book of John in the bible e.t.c, we spoke and blasted in tongues,loud, quiet as possibly as I and others could; like we may never have done before in our lives.Frankly, a lot of ardent church members/goers with possibly 500 yrs experience of being a Christian were busy gazing at Monic and also looking at peeps like myself as if '' what does he think he is doing? ''someone has given up the ghost, you are speaking and praying in tongues; in fact unknown languages, silly cheeky men''.Well even though I could guess the reading on their faces, I didn't give a monkey neither banana. I only continued and was determined by God's grace to pray even more and of course some of my guys/ladies who strongly believe in the miracle of Jesus Christ's name, were continually speaking in tongues, quoting bible verses with absolute faith in God came to cuddle me and were encouraged to continue with the efficacy of the prayers.
                   Behold in about 15 mins plus,Monic was beginning to show signs of breathe, sneezing, coughing out, eyes slowly opening and the lips.She smiled to her daughter, son-in-law.Praise God is the next thing I started hearing, Jesus Christ must be praised.The entirety of the church was suddenly light up in beaming smiles,laughter, cheers and jubilation's.Am pretty sure that even the initial 'no faith-ers',God forgive me here..started running around like headless chicken,rejoicing.Back to the gist, two NHS medical ambulances arrived, having been called-in urgency by two different people in desperation to save a buoyant life.People were relieved, sweating.I was amazed by God, even though I knew that God is able to bring her back to life as I and others 've absolute faith in God.One of Monics daughters had literally drove mad to church within the hour of incidence, and cried to conclusion that her lovely mum was gone.She wailed so badly with annoyance.
                  Tell you what? I was moved to speak and pray in tongues because I felt that if someone who walked on her own to church died inside the church service, it may be highly scandalous to the church and of course the body of Christ.Firstly, unbelievers 'll never accept to be invited to the church or any other ever again and they 'll love to mock the church and discourage innocent Christians especially youngsters.They would 've loved to say ' are you going to that church where people die,where is their God? '.Infact fake competitive churches could 've possibly be found doing same mocking game.Why? because they are in lugubrious and unnecessary competition with themselves,by themselves and for themselves and not anything in the spirit of God's love for one another nor loving your neighbour as the Lord commanded in the ten commandment.But  God forbid, God didn't allow that scandal as the church and its leadership is too superb in character.Another reason would 've been the coronary enquiry and of course the excessiveness  of the BBC and other media powerhouses.It's a living church for God's glory only, I repeat only God's glory.Praise Master Jesus Christ!
                  Right, do you still doubt the existence of a true living God? do you believe in Jesus Christ? are you in occult? do you practise satanism? do you think of yourself as a personality with a demi-god? do you practise witch crafting? well that was an eye-witnessing testimony I was blessed to see for myself.The old lady was discharged many hours later, 2 days later when I enquired about her, her son-in-law texted back to me that the gracious old lady went shopping at Tesco's.Friday same week, she continued to be out and about, and jetted off on holidays to Jamaica.Do you know why? because when God give you a life back, its a double miracle of renewed strength and vitality.God perfects all things great and beautiful.He is the  ever awesome God.Guys there's no point lieing to you, He is practical with our lives. Y'all knows that I am the guy next door, I don't give neither a monkey nor banana's but I can give cornflakes if you need it.I'll tell you as it is.Accept the Lord as your Saviour today.Just remember I am your guy next door, no gimmicks, just me as always.Many thanks for painstakingly reading through the end of this.
                 Your Host!
                  Kings...
Hey pray that my resident Pastor 'll not be annoyed that I 'd blog about this.Hahahehe!It's a great testimony to be shared anyway,our lives are like a city set on the mountain top;so says the holy bible.I said praaaaaaay!!
               


                     
       

Thursday, 20 June 2013

Buddies 3:Eastend Africana. BLOG 23

        Good on you ''another drama tale'' I thought to myself  as I bumped into East Africana man.
 Ain't seen his brake lights for 3 cool months. Immediately I saw him, I was imagining what's the hype he's going to tell me for  a start.
        Buddy whassup? I said .He looked at me with a warm toothy smile. Am good and you? He replied. You look stressed men, what's the cause of the imbroglio? He 'd admitted being stressed by his Mrs. I don't want to know but if you like you may choose to tell me a brief of it, I said.
        Men, these women can kill someone o (African ascent).How can they ? Is your Mrs not your wife? She's cool. At least I know that about her; for real. No! He shouted out loud to me, that's how Dude's as you miss the whole point, she is cool, she is cool. What's so cool about her? He enquired from me. Continuing he said. That is why I am a dictator in my house. I am not necessarily an East African dictator, I am Mugabe from the South and Gaddafi from the North plus Abacha from the West. All three combined is me, he said.
        As a dictator I do what I do in my humble abode.She's just a woman and that's all. She is not a lady in my house, because she's not allowed. Buddy, don't start I quickly said to him. No, he subtly replied, 'Man gotto be a dictator at home otherwise, these self-acclaimed ladies, combined with their Western  feminism mentality can kill their man with stress'. Oops I started to make some correction but he wouldn't listen as it seems his believe is a grand finale. But as for me, at this stage knowing fully well what he is like, I started laughing at him. Firstly because I had no idea whatsoever he was talking about .More  so I wondered on my own if his dictatorship approach can sort out his marital character parody. END
         Enjoy the laughs.... to be continued....

Did you know? 1.That Bolivia has the highest altitude on earth.
Have a laugh:    2. Mugabe is still kicking strong because he eats Pangolin and Tortoise, which naturally live up to 100 yrs and above. Hahahahaahaha
Want some more practical jokes??? Ready,ready...steady? If you make me the President of the World I 'll put a stop to all religion.
        Now  lets do the objective.Have you thought about living an alcohol & smoke free life? It's realistically achievable.Just a single decisive decision will do... make it today!
        Cheers to the glasses of non-alcoholic wine.
        Your Host....KingS 'Z.            

Tuesday, 11 June 2013

Buddies 2:The Eastend plus Westend Africana.BLOG 22

         Sequel to Blog 19 this is the phase 2 continua of my literal work on the above article.Well,about the Eastend African Brit, he did asked for a favour the other day, for some reasons the internet in his humble abode wasn't active.So he asked if on my way home, can I be generous enough to come with my lappy topper and so I graciously did with all humility.Funny enough, I don't know if it is his stark illiteracy of the info tech or the inactive Internet that prompted him.Anyway, I ended up fixing the Tax disc for his ride.
         Here is the deal or crux of our conversation.He went: Meeeen (men), Nigerians are fraud competent.Shocked as I was, I manage to ask 'why will you say such a gross stinky throw up? He goes again: Yeah they are so bad and full-on fraud, I mean 75% of Nigerians are fraudulent in all their ways, thinking + business.
        Me: 75%?
        Eastend: Yeahhh 75%. Almost immediately he laughed loudly in a blushing manner.
        Me:I 'll like you to possibly make an apology for gross political incorrection( I was smiling though).Or at least correct your stinky statistical statement by saying: Perhaps 1% of Nigerians worldwide, think of it man; 75% of 170 million Nigerian population is huge men!
        Eastend: I said seven-til file parcent.
        Me:You talking absolute non-sense now.75% is a mega number.
        Eastend: All Nigerians except a few do fraud.
        Me:So that includes even your close Nig. friends, that you know too well as clean peeps?
        Eastend:No not such peeps, not do gooders as you.
Then I said if people like me exist, why don't you think there are millions out there  even better and more honest than I ? Several clean generations.
        Eastend Africana: Men Nigerians even teach fellow Nigerians & other Africans how to do shitty stuff.
        Me: Shitty stuff like what? I queried.I was slowly getting off my funny bones mood.
        Slowly and slightly getting bemused and ''flabbergutted'' I said what is the point generalising? You know I got no clue whatsoever about your ramblings.More often than not, honest Nigerians in all walks of life in the global market just carry-on with their individual life nowadays because the hype and counter claims of negative imagery by a handful of the Nig people don't reflect any proposition or supposition about millions of other well meaning peeps.I said to the Eastend Africana that this is where you really don't want people to get to, I mean a carefree attitude.Because when you allow people to get there, then you have most probably threw caution to the wind.I declared to him that every nation has fraudulent psychos, I will not defend crime as I am not even a criminologist, only simply making a case for the millions of good minded Nigerians the world over. Who most times have to endure the pain and painstaking of the diverse negativity for all Nigerian peeps.
       The Eastend buddy went like, yeah if  the law enforcement stop a Nig. they really want to check him, because ;Nigerians are really 'bed' ( with a loud annoying vocal pronunciation for the word: bad ).'Yes very bed people,so bed'.
       I reiterated to him that, which great or small country in the world is free of fraud practising? From the developed nations to the poorest of nations like Malawi.To me I said, its a selfish propaganda and a PR stunt to hang a nation of millions of vastly great minds as Nigeria.Its all boils down to the irresponsible, sucessive national government , who do not give a monkeys about how to reward its good people e.g refurnishing its international imagery.The government from time to time makes no effort to investigate some of the fraud cases.I think most nations are fraud guilty by the way.
      Lastly, Mr Eastend took a deep sigh and reluctantly said: Yes all nations are 'bed' and Nigeria too.So all nations have bad and good people? I enquired.'Yes of course, all nations have many bed guys.
       INFINITO END, to be continued.....
      Just a quick quib quest: Have you given a thought about accepting Jesus Christ as your personal Lord and Savour? Pls do accept him.Do you know why, you have to? It is simply because people go to hell because they never accepted Jesus Christ as their Lord and Saviour.It was never because they are good minded people or bad minded people.It is because of lack of acceptance of their maker.Rm 6:23,Rm 6:11, and the most precise verse for this truth is: Jn 3:16.
     Have a great day, your usual host;
     King OmoZore.
     West Londoner.POst Coding xxx.

Saturday, 1 June 2013

The Nigerian: A Word Of Mouth Political Self Destructive Mechanism.BLOG 21

       I guess I am writing this piece at no less a sensitive time than the dastardly recent days of terror by some lunatics who happens to be a descents from Nigeria , but obviously born and raised in London.However, it must be clear that this article has absolutely nothing to do with the dismal of recent times.There should be no place for any acts of terror in the 21st century world.In fact even if the World was in its  4th century data, terror should never have a place in the lives of the great human race.God is the absolute creator of lives and no human should kill in the name of any god.
       Many a time I look at the Nigerian lot and their mouth action destructive mechanism, all I do is to shake my head in pittance of the ignominy.One would hardly not find a Nigerian elite or bush character who isn't critically hanging the nation.I must say that most Nigerians may 've reasons and excuses to to do so due to many years of incessant bad governance and corrupt practises ,other than to be critical of the various govt.But I think it is an entirely different scenario when a  Nigerian decides without pre-caution to hang both the nation itself and the vast majority of its good people before an outsider.Permit me to say here that an outsider includes among  others fellow Africans.Apparently we all know that sometimes it's difficult to separate government officials who themselves are Nigerian citizens from the ordinary Nigerian man walking down and trading in the high street with dignity of sweaty labour.The latter is clearly without corruption as he most probably never occupied a public office or tasted political power privileges in any official posit in his life.Having clearly laid out this challenge of separation, I honestly think that Nigerians both in the diaspora and soil based should exercise caution at all times each time they lay bare the belly issues of of an ailing giant Elephant like Nigeria before Non-Nigerians.
       I  'll cite instances to buttress the fact.How on earth can one imagine a public service worker to proudly and loudly say to colleagues that if they were in Nigeria they would 've been run over by a car.Why?? she said because they cannot be tolerated with their cynical attitude towards black colleagues at  work.Here is the question: Racism and bullying is not tolerated at work but the thing that I cannot comprehend is the ferocious anger and lie of relating work place quagmire with a total lie of been ran over as a result of cynicism in Nigeria.Where is the correlation and facts? It simply doesn't add up.Nigerians that are based in Nigeria are one of the most hospitable people to visitors in the world.Frankly there are plenty of truthful facts to this as the Guinness Book Of Records (I heard from the grapevine,never had the book) in recent years,   made a survey that proved Nigerians as the happiest and most hospitable people in the world,despite abject poverty in the midst of millions of Oil barrels sold in export daily.Another realistically known fact is that Nigerian home-based citizens and governments gives red carpet ,celebrity welcome to tourist and visitors from everywhere in the world especially Europeans and white Americans.Its beggars belief that someone whose work ethics requires caution can broadly and proudly make such false claim about where she originally came from.In short if I was at such a scene I most likely would 've told her off big time, point blank to shut up her crappy lie.
       Secondly, I am interested in finding out through this article, to know how many times an Eastern African or Southern region African has made a false claim of such magnitude about their nation of originality? In my candid opine, you 'll be shocked that it's only the lot of certain no-brainier Nigerians who can comfortably relate such trashy vibes to non-Nigerians about their Nigerian state.Hardly would there be any other African or citizens of the globe who may act with such a verbal outrage.I'd met  all sorts of   people -Cubans, Venezuelans, Egyptians, Malawians, Swiss, Portuguese, Americans, Russians, none  talk down on their own people and nationhood.They hardly even talk drag peeps into their governance issues.Isrealites are glaring patriots too.Only 'brand' Nigerians that do talk trashy about its own people which in turn  discourages  tourists and investors.Its the most cynical conspiracy ever that I had seen overseas by a despicable few.This issue is more than just expecting all Nigerians to be patriots, it is about single handedly destroying with your mouth mechanism your own place of birth.I believe that the land deserves and commands more than a bit of respect as well as reverence.It is not too difficult to do, all you got to do is to allow your brain nerves connect with the bad odoured mouth verbalisings.
        Thirdly, suffice to say that there is no better salesman for a nation than its own citizens.Indigenous citizens to be precise.Every nation sells itself by any shape or form in the media e.t.c.But there is no no better media than the word of mouth and meeting someone or a collective group of people from one particular nation.First impressions matter, utterances also matter.Actions and deliveries, trust , competence and reliability are all vital.The traditional age old system of a good salesman till date is by the use of word of mouth.When a Nigerian sells wrong info to a non-Nigerian, that info goes viral and cyclical.Can we ask the ordinary question of how come millions of non-Nigerians know about one of the Nigerian criminal code enshrined in the Nigerian constitution as 419? How did it go viral that the fraud code in the Nigeria constitution is 419?? many Nigerians themselves don't even know that the code 419 is truly in the constitution.But I 'll like to challenge you to know that non-Nigerians know about this and for so many years now, that's the basis of distrust and bone of contention as regards why loads of people bluffs and literally criminalise Nigerians in their hearts without any practical err on the part of an innocent Nigerian.I dare say here , that you have more fraudulent practises in places as Brazil,Egypt,Ghana,Shanghai,Turkey,Indonesia,Spain,Dubai.There are apparently more international scammers in Saudi.Lots of property scammers in Dubai,Spain.I '' ll never support any form of scammering whatever shape or size.Basically I am saying that millions of Nigerians the world over are the ones themselves who literally keep hanging their nation.Its not necessarily the media mechanism of the western world as some Nigerians love to claim sometimes.Perhaps there was a time when the western media did so for several destructive and disruptive years through smearing campaigns  e.t.c. but that was predominantly more about nearly a quarter of a century years ago, but for ages now such glo-media has subsided in their antics as they probably 've seen that they 've crumbled almost beyond repair the sustainable and vibrant economic/political prowess of the entirety of Africa, not only Nigeria.In my honest opine its the mouthy tigering by Nigerians themselves that is currently doing the global harm.Responsibility do help.                                                           
          Let us think through some possible examples across the world now.South Africa is a ready example of a nation associated with juvenile rape cases on women.Same South Afro is top charted on the global violence and all male power gender acquisition,i.e women are subdued in that society like no-other place in the world.But you 'll hardly hear a South African speaking loudly and audiencing non-South Africans about the violent trends and endemic rape cases beleaguering the nation.I don't need to be misquoted here,I don't support hiding facts about societals ills.The thing is if nations are pretending about the ills of their society, then there is absolutely no-need to point fingers at other nations who basically lack structural policies.Let's listen to Jamaican born adults be it man/wo they never address non-Jamaicans about the unlawful killings and violence that do go on in Jamaica, infact Jamaicans believe and tend to represent Jamaica as the epicentre of the world.They love it and enjoys to posit Jamaica as a place that don't even need any reforms.Talk about China, the world's largest population, their human rights is increasingly depressing each year, do Chinese relate it to non-Chinese? never.Every Chinese is in denial of  human right violation and they are always defending the status-quo.Can we bring on India? I got a handful of India  friends in IT world.In a nut shell I have never seen a people that diplomatically speak with one voice about how puritanic the India nation is.Speak to two India guys at different places and time , all they will say is that the India experience is a life time achievement.What about underage sex?What about denying women their equal rights to men in society?What about child slavery and child worker viz-a-viz  paedo? No India is a world class.But can any one blame them? nope .This is simply because they are the best salesmen for their nation.No other expatriate can do a better job than themselves.
          Do anyone, non-Southern and Eastern African hear anyone from the two regions speak of the sexual health issues resident in those places? Never.A Botswana,Zimbabwean,South African,Kenya,Uganda,Tanzania 'll hardly ever speak or do a carefree or non-challant talk on Aids/HIV endemic in these places.Am sure they speak to each other about the issues perhaps in Swahili lingua franca e.t.c, they sure do; but they sure also don't ever and never speak to outsiders about such issues.England is a meeting point for the worlds people.These various people not just one race are in denial and often attempt to protect the 'integrity and imaging' of their flawed societies.Nigerians need to shut the crap and fold up their sleeves inorder to represent the good of the world and their nation.There is no need to misrepresent the millions of good people of Nigeria.It always apparently when one is invited to social parties and public seminars, any possibility of meeting  Africans will cause an instant mockery of Nigeria.They 'll make a jest of the Nigerian state and people.They go like ''All Nigerians are idolatery worshippers i.e juju worshippers,419ers,thieves, kidnappers e.t.c'' openly and you wonder in thought: how do these guys confidently lay claim to such counter-accusations over a people? The jokes are silly,noisy,loud and frustrating for all the wrong reasons.It drains you are an innocent personality.The most pathetic aspect is when one think of how the once giant of Africa had severally rescued both financially, diplomatically,international judiciary and of course politically these fellow Africans and their nations, during various national and regional crisis periods.The Nigerian army is the most formidable both in manpower numbers and equipments in the whole of Africa.The expertise and training delivery results has always been praised by the U.N, from war times in Rwanda to Sierra Leone to Darful ,the list is endless.Many Nigerian soldiers,Airforce men/women have lost their lives during crisis events in regions and sub-regions.Apartheid regime in South Africa cannot be over today, without the helping hand of the geo-political entity called Nigeria.
                               King Zore
                               Writes from W. London.Post coded ! Smile, Jesus Christ loves you as an individual!!